Fix milestone updates in remote-development-workflow.yml

What does this MR do and why?

Removes the invalid milestone actions and adds milestone quick actions instead.

Expected impact & dry-runs

https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/quality/triage-ops/-/jobs/4786370335

Action items

• If adding environment variables for reactive processors, update config/triage-web.yaml and .gitlab/ci/triage-web.yml
• (If applicable) Add documentation to the handbook pages for Triage Operations =>
• (If applicable) Identify the affected groups and how to communicate to them:
  • /cc @person_or_group =>
  • Relevant Slack channels =>
  • Engineering week-in-review