Allow AuditEventHelper to print custom_messages

What does this MR do?

Currently audit events on project and groups are shown differently from admin/audit_log.

admin/audit_log supports custom_message, which is easiest way to implement new messages

This MR copies custom_message functionality to pages and group audit events pages.

Originally extracted from https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ee/merge_requests/9487

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Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

• Changelog entry added, if necessary
• Documentation created/updated via this MR
• Documentation reviewed by technical writer or follow-up review issue created
• Tests added for this feature/bug
• Tested in all supported browsers
• Conforms to the code review guidelines
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• Link to e2e tests MR added if this MR has Requires e2e tests label. See the Test Planning Process.
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