Add lease to update project statistics row and log concurrent updates

What does this MR do and why?

We need to be able to trace when there is potential concurrent update on a single project statistics row.

This MR makes the following changes:

1. Refactor existing code to call a counter update method with a lock in ProjectStatistics.
2. Wrap each attempt to update a project statistics with an exclusive lease lock.
3. Log a warning each time it fails to obtain the lock and continue executing the update.

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Related to #373595