Clear up procedure on promoting external databases

What does this MR do?

Clear up the instructions on how to promote secondary sites with external postgresql database servers. The wording previously used led users to think that running gitlab-ctl geo promote should be sufficient to promote the replica, when in actuality, running the SQL procedure manually is necessary to prepare the database.

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