Backport of 'Index SBOM occurrences for parent lookup in graph build' into 19.4

What does this MR do and why?

This MR backports !257547 (merged) to 19.4. It is a clean cherry-pick of the default branch commit 6ecca2b8, and the diff is identical. The 19.5 backport is !262206 (merged).

Sbom::BuildDependencyGraph looked up the parent of each dependency with a linear scan over all occurrences of the project. This made the graph build quadratic in the number of occurrences. The change builds an in-memory index once and looks up each parent in constant time. The behavior does not change.

This is part of the fix for #593156 (closed) (severity1). On large dependency graphs, Sbom::BuildDependencyGraphWorker jobs run for hours and block other Sidekiq jobs. A GitLab Dedicated customer on 19.4 is affected (INC-15911).

!257547 (merged) has the typemaintenance label, but it fixes part of the typebug issue #593156 (closed).

This is the first of three 19.4 backports for #593156 (closed). The second (!257548 (merged)) and third (!257733 (merged)) are stacked on this MR. Merge them in order.

Testing

On a GDK sandbox, with RAILS_ENV=test, with this change applied to 19-4-stable-ee at ad668d36:

Spec	Result
build_dependency_graph_spec, build_dependency_graph_worker_spec, graph_path_spec	50 examples, 0 failures

• rubocop on the changed files reports no offenses.

Pushed with all pre-push hooks passing. The hooks in lefthook.yml compute their file list from git merge-base origin/master HEAD, so on a stable branch they would lint every file where 19.4 differs from master. A local, gitignored lefthook-local.yml pointed that merge base at origin/19-4-stable-ee instead, so the hooks checked only this change.

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