Alter AR validation for work item parent link to not only be on create

What does this MR do and why?

Now that we have backfilled all work_item_parent_link_id foreign keys for Epic records which have parents, this alters the AR validation to not only be on create, and enforce on every save that an Epic with a parent has a WorkItemParentLink.

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Related to #504325 (closed)