Update node and yarn to the versions used by the rails project

Related to gitlab!52002 (merged)

changed milestone to %13.10

added devopssystems groupdistribution typemaintenance labels

added typefeature label

Test dev pipeline: https://dev.gitlab.org/gitlab/omnibus-gitlab/-/pipelines/188301

added workflowready for review label

assigned to @balasankarc and unassigned @twk3

added tooling (archive) label and removed typefeature typemaintenance labels

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requested review from @balasankarc

added workflowin review label and removed workflowready for review label

merged

mentioned in commit 796a1f4d

added typemaintenance label and removed tooling (archive) label