Add system hooks for project/group membership updates

What does this MR do?

Add system hooks for project/group membership updates

When updating group and project members, new system hooks user_update_for_group and user_update_for_team will be executed.

Tests have been added and docs updated.

Fixes https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ee/issues/12252

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