Allow PostgreSQL adapter tcp parameter tuning

What does this MR do?

Allow PostgreSQL adapter tcp parameter tuning

Related issues

Closes #2797 (closed)

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• Equivalent MR/issue for omnibus-gitlab opened: gitlab-org/omnibus-gitlab!4776 (merged)