Update gitlab-mail_room to v0.0.23

What does this MR do?

This only has minor fixes but allows for the v2 of oauth2 gem and gets rid of an unnecessary io-wait gem dependency, which will need to be updated for Ruby 3.1+. The io-wait version was pinned due to gitlab-org/omnibus-gitlab#6471 (closed), which has now been resolved upstream (https://github.com/ruby/io-wait/commit/1060f9348c60a62e4a5e00e718a605cef00f7bbd).

Diff: https://my.diffend.io/gems/gitlab-mail_room/0.0.20/0.0.23

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