[utxo] Optimizations to Avoid Ordinal Issues

Resolves #1872 (closed). There are a number of different optimizations in this - creating merge request with squash disabled to preserve clean history in the main branch.

In conjunction with this will be the option for nodes to use the image from current development source (thorchain/devops/node-launcher!1029 (closed)) if they continue to have further performance trouble and require getblock with verbosity 2 to be flagged on. There will also be a not yet created change to add a few flags to dogecoind to further avoid daemon load.

Remaining in draft pending stagenet testing and mainnet canary.