PyBind11: fix no parameter warning for PYBIND11_DECLARE_HOLDER_TYPE

Closes #717 (closed)

In pybind11 3 clang compilation fails due to variadic macro PYBIND11_DECLARE_HOLDER_TYPE called without providing any arguments for the variadic part. Following @t-b, we add third parameter false

Meanwhile, I still saved the generalization of DISABLE_WARNING macro for potentian use in future