tune Flux kustomize and Helm controllers

This MR:

• increases the requeue timeout for failed dependencies to 8s
  • it most likely won't help the CLI-based workflow because we have sylvactl watch --reconcile which nudges the units for faster reconciliation
  • it will help the CLI workflow for the cases where people interrupt apply.sh
  • it will help the GitOps workflow
  • I have been running my own dev env for more than a year with this setting
• increases the concurrency (how many resources are processed in parallel)
  • this possibility was suggested by @cristian.manda
  • I have used this setting for a few weeks now locally in my own dev env, without problems

CI configuration

Below you can choose test deployment variants to run in this MR's CI.

Click to open to CI configuration

Legend:

Icon	Meaning	Available values
☁️	Infra Provider	capd, capo, capm3
🚀	Bootstrap Provider	kubeadm (alias kadm), rke2
🐧	Node OS	ubuntu, suse
🛠️	Deployment Options	light-deploy, dev-sources, ha, misc, maxsurge-0
🎬	Pipeline Scenarios	Available scenario list and description

• 🎬 preview ☁️ capd 🚀 kadm 🐧 ubuntu

• 🎬 preview ☁️ capo 🚀 rke2 🐧 suse

• 🎬 preview ☁️ capm3 🚀 rke2 🐧 ubuntu

• ☁️ capd 🚀 kadm 🛠️ light-deploy 🐧 ubuntu

• ☁️ capd 🚀 rke2 🛠️ light-deploy 🐧 suse

• ☁️ capo 🚀 rke2 🐧 suse

• ☁️ capo 🚀 kadm 🐧 ubuntu

• ☁️ capo 🚀 rke2 🎬 rolling-update 🛠️ ha 🐧 ubuntu

• ☁️ capo 🚀 kadm 🎬 wkld-k8s-upgrade 🐧 ubuntu

• ☁️ capo 🚀 rke2 🎬 rolling-update-no-wkld 🛠️ ha,misc 🐧 suse

• ☁️ capo 🚀 rke2 🎬 sylva-upgrade-from-1.3.x 🛠️ ha,misc 🐧 ubuntu

• ☁️ capm3 🚀 rke2 🐧 suse

• ☁️ capm3 🚀 kadm 🐧 ubuntu

• ☁️ capm3 🚀 kadm 🎬 rolling-update-no-wkld 🛠️ ha,misc 🐧 ubuntu

• ☁️ capm3 🚀 rke2 🎬 wkld-k8s-upgrade 🛠️ ha 🐧 suse

• ☁️ capm3 🚀 kadm 🎬 rolling-update 🛠️ ha 🐧 ubuntu

• ☁️ capm3 🚀 rke2 🎬 sylva-upgrade-from-1.3.x 🛠️ misc,ha 🐧 suse

• ☁️ capm3 🚀 kadm 🎬 rolling-update 🛠️ ha 🐧 suse

Global config for deployment pipelines

• autorun pipelines
• allow failure on pipelines
• record sylvactl events

Notes:

• Enabling autorun will make deployment pipelines to be run automatically without human interaction
• Disabling allow failure will make deployment pipelines mandatory for pipeline success.
• if both autorun and allow failure are disabled, deployment pipelines will need manual triggering but will be blocking the pipeline

Be aware: after configuration change, pipeline is not triggered automatically. Please run it manually (by clicking the run pipeline button in Pipelines tab) or push new code.