Update tooling to latest versions [SE-5423]

Description

This PR contains the updates required to update the Grove tooling to the latest versions.

Left out are:

• The Gitlab Cluster Certificates
• The AWS EKS upgrade

As both are too complex for this ticket.

Supporting information

• https://tasks.opencraft.com/browse/SE-5423

Testing instructions

• Check that all versions for packages except the exceptions have been upgraded.

• Follow the instructions on https://grove.opencraft.com for working locally.

• Provision a cluster for both Digital Ocean and AWS.

• Deploy a new instance

• All the above should work without errors or deprecation warnings related to Terraform code.

Note that there is an issue with MySQL 8 check constraints not working on Digital Ocean. See below notes.

Or view the pipelines:

AWS

• https://gitlab.com/opencraft/dev/grove-development/-/pipelines/528138510
• https://gitlab.com/opencraft/dev/grove-development/-/pipelines/528096690

Digital Ocean

• Infra: https://gitlab.com/opencraft/ops/grove-stage-digitalocean/-/pipelines/529525315
• Instance: https://gitlab.com/opencraft/ops/grove-stage-digitalocean/-/pipelines/529527996 [note that this one doesn't pass because of the MySQL 8 constraints issue which is out of scope for this ticket]

Deadline

2 May 2022