docs: add custom database user guides

Description

This guide adds documentation on using custom database settings with Grove.

Supporting information

https://tasks.opencraft.com/browse/SE-5927

Testing instructions

Steps to test the changes:

1. Read the docs.

Dependencies

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Screenshots

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Checklist

If any of the items below is not applicable, do not remove them, but put a check in it.

• All providers include the new feature/change
• All affected providers can provision new clusters
• Unit tests are added/updated
• Documentation is added/updated
• The TOOLS_CONTAINER_IMAGE_VERSION in ci_vars.yml is updated
• The grove-template repository is updated

Additional context

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