Fixed some bugs and misbehaviour

• fix: restart SGDbOps does not work on SGCluster when patroni scope is set
• feat: forbid creation of minor and major version upgrade when SGCluster is managed by a controller
• fix: update the sharded cluster endpoints early by watching coordinator or shards endpoints is updated
• fix: when SSL enable causes boostrap to fail and breaks synchronous replication
• refactor: make the reconciliation cycle query less kubernetes API
• fix: update the sharded cluster endpoints early by watching coordinator or shards endpoints is updated
• fix: sharded cluster primary service and shards service can not be set to NodePort or LoadBalancer
• feat: add back older versions of babelfish