Add support for custom_role_id

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Closes #6370 (closed)

This MR adds support for using custom_role_id with a group_ldap_link resource, allowing LDAP users to use custom roles for group links. It also slightly refactors the ldap link tests to use the new test methodology using testutils instead of separate TF resources for creating dependent test resources.