Change the default Java max heap size

What does this MR do?

Change the default Java max heap size according to reent guidance from Redhat for containers running a single Java process.

What are the relevant issue numbers?

E.g. gitlab-org/gitlab#216942 (closed)

Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

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• Documentation created/updated for GitLab EE, if necessary
• Documentation created/updated for this project, if necessary
• Documentation reviewed by technical writer or follow-up review issue created
• Tests updated/added for this feature/bug
• Job definition updated, if necessary
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• Conforms to the code review guidelines
• Conforms to the Go guidelines
• Security reports checked/validated by reviewer