Make label reminder instructions more explict

What does this MR do and why?

Describe in detail what your merge request does and why.

The incorrect review labels ping is very open-ended and doesn't tell the user what actions the bot has already taken (adding workflow::in dev), or what action they should take (adding a reviewer if missing). This MR makes the comment less ambiguous by telling the user specifically what they should do.

Expected impact & dry-runs

These are strongly recommended to assist reviewers and reduce the time to merge your change.

See https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/quality/triage-ops/-/tree/master/doc/scheduled#testing-policies-with-a-dry-run on how to perform dry-runs for new policies.

See https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/quality/triage-ops/-/blob/master/doc/reactive/best_practices.md#use-the-sandbox-to-test-new-processors on how to make sure a new processor can be tested.

Action items

• If adding environment variables for reactive processors, update config/triage-web.yaml and .gitlab/ci/triage-web.yml
• (If applicable) Add documentation to the handbook pages for Triage Operations =>
• (If applicable) Identify the affected groups and how to communicate to them:
  • /cc @person_or_group =>
  • Relevant Slack channels =>
  • Engineering week-in-review