Don't enable consul with `postgres_role` and add a warning when Patroni is enabled but consul is not

What does this MR do?

• This removes consul from the postgres_role
• Adds a warning when patroni is enabled but consul is not

Related issues

As we removed repmgr support and have split patroni related code into its own role: patroni_role, this no longer makes sense.

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