Fix the failing post migration when index exists

What does this MR do and why?

Related incident: gitlab-com/gl-infra/production#7336 (closed)

Reason: the index_exists? within the add_concurrent_index method does not match the index properly when the columns and the direction is expressed as raw SQL. This MR adds an explicit index existence check by name.

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