Allow using TCP for DB load balancing DNS lookups

What does this MR do?

It allows using TCP for DB load balancing DNS lookups, as some nameservers (like Consul) can return a truncated list of hosts when queried over UDP. We ran into this problem on staging, only 3 hosts of 5 were returned.

What are the relevant issue numbers?

• #8979 (closed)
• https://gitlab.com/gitlab-com/gl-infra/infrastructure/issues/5687#note_127111918

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