Update sqlite3 to version 1.4.2

Ruby 3.0.3 requires sqlite3 version 1.4.2 (see #357081 (closed)) to build correctly. This MR updates sqlite3 to this version.

https://my.diffend.io/gems/sqlite3/1.3.13/1.4.2

https://github.com/sparklemotion/sqlite3-ruby/blob/master/CHANGELOG.rdoc

It should build fine on both ruby 2.7.5 as well as ruby 3.0.3

Related to #357081 (closed)