Adds a shouldCollapse computed prop to widget extensions

What does this MR do and why?

Adds a shouldCollapse to the widget extensions API. The consuming extensions can then add additional logic which will be used be the core component to determine if the extension can be expanded or not.

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Closes #354492 (closed)