[EE] User can keep their commit email private

What does this MR do?

EE counterpart of https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/merge_requests/22560

It also solves the specific portion of the push rules discussion

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What are the relevant issue numbers?

https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/issues/43521

Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

• Changelog entry added, if necessary
• Documentation created/updated
• Tests added for this feature/bug
• Conforms to the code review guidelines
• Conforms to the merge request performance guidelines
• Conforms to the style guides
• Conforms to the database guides
• Link to e2e tests MR added if this MR has Requires e2e tests label. See the Test Planning Process.
• EE specific content should be in the top level /ee folder
• For a paid feature, have we considered GitLab.com plans, how it works for groups, and is there a design for promoting it to users who aren't on the correct plan?