Make sec training provider mutation optimistic

What does this MR do and why?

On the configuration page for the upcoming "Security Training" feature, we currently show a loading spinner whenever a training provider gets enabled or disabled.

This MR leverages apollo's optimistic-response option to move away from the loading indicator and assume that the mutation was successful instead.

If an error occurs the user still gets a message about it.

Screenshots or screen recordings

success	before	after
yes	success_before	success_after
no	error_before	error_after

How to set up and validate locally

Enable the feature flag:

echo "Feature.enable(:secure_vulnerability_training)" | rails c

Create training providers:

echo "Security::TrainingProvider.create!(name: 'Foo', description: 'Foo provider', url: 'http://foo.com', logo_url: 'http://foo.com/logo')" | rails c

echo "Security::TrainingProvider.create!(name: 'Bar', description: 'Bar provider', url: 'http://bar.com', logo_url: 'http://bar.com/logo')" | rails c

1. Go to a project's "Security & Compliance" -> "Configuration"
2. Click on "Vulnerability Management"
3. Enable / Disable either provider and make sure that it persists after a page reload

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Related to #348985 (closed)