Docs: Update 1k Ref Arch with Diagram and Overview of Service Scaling

What does this MR do?

Anyone new to GitLab instance architecture can have challenges understanding GitLab's incredible flexibility and why scaling it becomes complex because in it's simplest form GitLab can run on a single node.

It can be easy to assume that scaling it is a simple process.

This information intends to show:

• that within a single instance GitLab Instance there are multiple services - all communicating at hardware speeds (memory & disk & network)
• scaling this requires that many of these services scale as independent service layers, become data storing clusters and may require ancillary services to support the horizontal scaling.

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