Draft: Fast destroy project job artifacts

What does this MR do and why?

This MR speeds up Projects::DestroyService by skipping the ordinarily dependent: :destroy on Project#builds.

It will also requiring implementing new logic to make Ci::Build FastDestroy-able, and that's not in this branch yet.

This is an alternative to !71342 (merged), and they're both approaches to solving https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/issues/24644

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