Remove unexpected FK prior to swapping columns

What does this MR do and why?

#341822 (closed) indicates that there is a common inconsistency with an unexpected foreign key. This causes migrations to fail upon upgrade to 14.3.

We patch the migration (and backport this to 14.3) so that the unexpected foreign key is removed prior to running the rest of the migration.

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