Check project settings when assigning a build to a runner

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Related to #340583 (closed)

With !70415 (merged) we're removed the queuing checks from the database queries for project deletion and CI/CD enabled status. Now we're reintroducing them, but in Ruby and we're also dropping the builds immediately if any of the checks fail.

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