RuboCop: Ban more methods which might cause subtransactions

What does this MR do?

This MR adds 3 more methods to be banned by RuboCop which potentially create subtransactions:

• safe_find_or_create
• safe_find_or_create!
• with_fast_read_statement_timeout

The remaining offenses will be fixed via #339787.

It also adds exclusions to .rubocop_manual_todo.yml instead of disabling cops inline the code. See individual commits for more information.

See #338730 (closed) and &6540 (closed) for more context.

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