Status Page: Track incident issue without subtransaction

What does this MR do?

This MR removes SQL subtransactions (via safe_find_or_create_by) for StatusPage::PublishedIncident#track by using the unsafe method #find_or_create_by!.

Previously, we've used safe_find_or_create_by to circumvent this fact but it uses subtransactions under the hood which is problematic in nested transactions.

In the rare event of ActiveRecord::RecordNotUnique users end up seeing a meaningful error message. This behaviour is acceptable and that's why switched to unsafe method find_or_create_by.

See &6540 (closed) for more context.

Will fix #339122 (closed).

Screenshots or Screencasts (strongly suggested)

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How to setup and validate locally (strongly suggested)

In Rails console:

issue = Issue.last

# Clean slate
StatusPage::PublishedIncident.delete_all

# "Simulate" race condition
StatusPage::PublishedIncident.track(issue)

# Transaction similar to MarkForPublicationService 
StatusPage::PublishedIncident.transaction do
  StatusPage::PublishedIncident.track(issue)
  p :ok
  issue.update!(title: "foo bar #{rand(1000)}")
end

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