Drops builds from instance runners when CI quota is exceeded [RUN ALL RSPEC] [RUN AS-IF-FOSS]

What does this MR do?

Related to #323486

⚠ This MR is too big and it's being split into multiple ones: ⚠

• !61471 (merged) - introduces matchers
• !61475 (merged) - uses matchers to drop builds
• !61476 (merged) - prevents autoretry of dropped builds

Database queries:

project.all_runners.runner_matchers

Cold cache: https://console.postgres.ai/shared/33c15a90-6c24-4509-99b2-3dba1a50574e
Hot Cache: https://console.postgres.ai/shared/af78cf4f-d173-4368-add5-6557621f3463

::Gitlab::Ci::Matching::BuildMatcher.for(pipeline)

Cold cache: https://console.postgres.ai/shared/f63b1810-bc12-44b9-b242-07f7c61cdf1a
Hot Cache: https://console.postgres.ai/shared/c22bcdb3-d911-4afa-9873-c0798faf21c3

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