Adds data consistency for BuildHooksWorker [RUN ALL RSPEC] [RUN AS-IF-FOSS]

What does this MR do?

Utilize new Sidekiq read-only database replicas capabilities (introduced in !55881 (merged)) for BuildHooksWorker.

Data consistency is set to :delayed - worker would switch to primary only on write, would use replica always if there's a long replication lag the job will be delayed, and only if the replica is not up to date on the next retry, it will switch to the primary.

This is set behind the feature flag: load_balancing_for_build_hooks_worker and it will be disabled by default

Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

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Related to #324232 (closed)