Fix N+1 cache queries for load_balancing

What does this MR do?

It turned out that N+1 cached queries are caused by Gitlab::Database::LoadBalancing::Sticking. The number of N+1 cached queries was directly proportional to the number of group members, because primary_write_location executed this query every time.

This MR prevents executing the same query multiple times during the same request.

Closes https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/issues/254219

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Closes #254219