Move external URL to step to start

What does this MR do?

The external URL really should already be set on any real GitLab instance before they get to configuring Gitaly HA. Moving this to an early step helps prevent it being muddled into the actual HA setup.

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Author's checklist (required)

• Follow the Documentation Guidelines and Style Guide.
• Apply the documentation label, plus:
  • The corresponding DevOps stage and group label, if applicable.
  • development guidelines when changing docs under doc/development/*, CONTRIBUTING.md, or README.md.
  • development guidelines and Documentation guidelines when changing docs under development/documentation/*.
  • development guidelines and Description templates (.gitlab/*) when creating/updating issue and MR description templates.
• Assign the designated Technical Writer.

When applicable:

• Update the permissions table.
• Link docs to and from the higher-level index page, plus other related docs where helpful.
• Add GitLab's version history note(s).
• Add the product tier badge.
• Add/update the feature flag section.
• If you're changing document headings, search doc/*, app/views/*, and ee/app/views/* for old headings replacing with the new ones to avoid broken anchors.

Review checklist

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1. Primary Reviewer

• Review by a code reviewer or other selected colleague to confirm accuracy, clarity, and completeness. This can be skipped for minor fixes without substantive content changes.

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• Optional: Technical writer review. If not requested for this MR, must be scheduled post-merge. To request for this MR, assign the writer listed for the applicable DevOps stage.
  • Add Technical Writing and docs:: workflow label.
  • Add docs-only when the only files changed are under doc/*.

3. Maintainer

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