Fix oauth check to verify user exists

What does this MR do?

The Gitlab::Auth oauth_access_token_check method checks if the token's user has access, but in the case the user has been deleted, a 500 is thrown. This MR adds a check so if there is no user, the auth fails without throwing a 500.

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Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

Conformity

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• Review and add/update tests for this feature/bug. Consider all test levels. See the Test Planning Process.
• [-] Tested in all supported browsers
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Security

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• Label as security and @ mention @gitlab-com/gl-security/appsec
• The MR includes necessary changes to maintain consistency between UI, API, email, or other methods
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Related #212526 (closed)