Add note to ping appsec in security MR template

What does this MR do?

This is documented in the developer workflow but it's easy to miss since it's not a step in the MR to be checked off https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/release/docs/blob/master/general/security/developer.md#create-merge-requests . The developer workflow is also a little vague about "leave enough time to review" but it is not very explicitly stating that you should expect them to approve it so I've added that as a separate checkbox.

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Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

Conformity

• [-] Changelog entry
• [-] Documentation (if required)
• Code review guidelines
• Merge request performance guidelines
• Style guides
• Database guides
• Separation of EE specific content

Availability and Testing

• Review and add/update tests for this feature/bug. Consider all test levels. See the Test Planning Process.
• Tested in all supported browsers

Security

If this MR contains changes to processing or storing of credentials or tokens, authorization and authentication methods and other items described in the security review guidelines:

• Label as security and @ mention @gitlab-com/gl-security/appsec
• The MR includes necessary changes to maintain consistency between UI, API, email, or other methods
• Security reports checked/validated by a reviewer from the AppSec team