Avoid updating or creating runner managers when deleting runner

What does this MR do and why?

This MR fixes the application logic so that we avoid updating or creating a runner manager when we know we're deleting its runner (which will cause the associated runner managers to be deleted anyway). This would have avoided some DELETE /runners requests failing during the recent gitlab-com/gl-infra/production#18792 (closed) incident.

Changelog: fixed

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Edited by Pedro Pombeiro

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