Exempt from sharding checks against FK

What does this MR do and why?

We have a few cases where exempt_from_sharding immediately breaks Org mover due to FK violations. We add these checks to prevent it.

These checks reveal 3 existing tables having issues. We will work with the relevant teams to fix these in #471182

Note: These does not catch everything.

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