Introduce stale runner traits

This MR follows up from !155795 (comment 1942874040) to refactor the contacted_at/created_at attributes being passed to ci_runners factories when they have a meaning (e.g. :stale, :offline, :online, etc.)

Part of #466312 (closed)

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