Enable `ci_remove_ensure_stage_service` by default

What does this MR do and why?

Enables ci_remove_ensure_stage_service by default. This will be enabled for all of 17.1, then we can remove the flag and the service in 17.2.

Rollout issue: ** #389076 (closed)**

Issue to keep track of removal: #464747 (closed)

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