Add GraphQL mutually exclusive validator

What does this MR do and why?

Adds a custom validator to validate that arguments are mutually exclusive. This is similar to Grape's mutually_exclusive helper.

For reference: https://graphql-ruby.org/fields/validation.html#custom-validators

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