Remove queue selector and negate options from Sidekiq cluster CLI

What does this MR do and why?

Part of gitlab-com/gl-infra/scalability#2220

• Remove --queue-selector and --negate option from sidekiq-cluster CLI (breaking change)
• Expand * in queue_groups to only the queues mentioned in routing rules + mailers.

MR acceptance checklist

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How to set up and validate locally

Without routing rules

1. Ensure sidekiq.routing_rules is empty/undefined in gitlab.yml

2. Restart gdk restart rails-background-jobs if needed

3. Run sidekiq

   ❯ bin/sidekiq-cluster --dryrun a,b,c
   bundle exec sidekiq -c20 -edevelopment -t25 -gqueues:default,mailers -r/Users/gregoriusmarco/Documents/workspace/gdk-10-22/gitlab -qdefault,1 -qmailers,1

4. The queues can be replaced to default and mailers because routing rules is set to [['*', 'default']] by default (https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/blob/8197b3f957111f748d5ac75be367176faa7c0d09/config/settings.rb#L176-180). Any other queues specified shouldn't be listened to.

5. Run sidekiq with *

   ❯ bin/sidekiq-cluster --dryrun '*' '*'
   bundle exec sidekiq -c20 -edevelopment -t25 -gqueues:default,mailers -r/Users/gregoriusmarco/Documents/workspace/gdk-10-22/gitlab -qdefault,1 -qmailers,1
   bundle exec sidekiq -c20 -edevelopment -t25 -gqueues:default,mailers -r/Users/gregoriusmarco/Documents/workspace/gdk-10-22/gitlab -qdefault,1 -qmailers,1

6. Also expanded to default and mailers (also current behavior)

With routing rules

1. Apply below routing rules in gitlab.yml

       routing_rules:
         - ["resource_boundary=cpu", "cpu-bound"]
         - ["resource_boundary=memory", "memory-bound"]
         - ["*", "default"]

2. Run sidekiq cluster:

   ❯ bin/sidekiq-cluster --dryrun '*' cpu-bound
   bundle exec sidekiq -c5 -edevelopment -t25 -gqueues:cpu-bound,memory-bound,default,mailers -r/Users/gregoriusmarco/Documents/workspace/gdk-10-22/gitlab -qcpu-bound,1 -qmemory-bound,1 -qdefault,1 -qmailers,1
   bundle exec sidekiq -c2 -edevelopment -t25 -gqueues:cpu-bound -r/Users/gregoriusmarco/Documents/workspace/gdk-10-22/gitlab -qcpu-bound,1

   Note that * is expanded to queues from the routing rules in the first process, whereas cpu-bound stays the same.