Improve UniquenessHelpers#ensure_unique_id

What does this MR do and why?

Backport of !145388 (merged) to make sure the migrations introduced in %16.9 have unique sequences for a given table.

This MR will raise an error when detecting multiple or no sequences owned by the same table.

This will avoid weird situation where the id was not generated correctly for some instances.

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