Only perform workspace agent config validation on create

What does this MR do and why?

Only perform workspace agent config validation on create

• Fixes issue uncovered by gitlab-com/gl-infra/production#17459 (closed)

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How to set up and validate locally

1. Create a workspace
2. Set the workspace's agent configuration to disabled
3. Update the workspace - it should succeed.