Add note about deprecation of queue selector

What does this MR do and why?

• Add deprecation note for queue selector and negate setting.
• Update references to queue selector and recommend to use routing rules when needed. Discussion in gitlab-com/gl-infra/scalability#1492 (comment 1273640324)

Deprecation issue: #390787 (closed)

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