Accept on_update option for add_concurrent_foreign_key helper

What does this MR do and why?

This MR adds on_update option to add_concurrent_foreign_key.

This is necessary in order to update invalid data in production with recent composite FK introduced in !106717 (merged).

Related to #387621 (closed)

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