Upgrade fog-aliyun to 0.4.0

What does this MR do and why?

• https://github.com/fog/fog-aliyun/pull/158 to get Ruby 3 compat
• Vendor in aliyun-oss-ruby-sdk to apply changes from https://github.com/aliyun/aliyun-oss-ruby-sdk/pull/93 that couldn't get merged upstream (the gem is unmaintained)

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Related to #372491 (closed)