Fix Vite HMR for installs without NGINX

What does this merge request do and why?

!3594 (merged) fixed the Vite HMR so that host would actually be used, but this broke GDK installations that do not use NGINX since Vite listens only on config.listen_address (e.g. 127.0.0.1) by default. If NGINX isn't used, we have to point the HMR to config.listen_address instead of config.hostname.

How to set up and validate locally

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Impacted categories

The following categories relate to this merge request:

• gdk-reliability - e.g. When a GDK action fails to complete.
• gdk-usability - e.g. Improvements or suggestions around how the GDK functions.
• gdk-performance - e.g. When a GDK action is slow or times out.

Merge request checklist

• This change is backward compatible. If not, please include steps to communicate to our users.
• Tests added for new functionality. If not, please raise an issue to follow-up.
• Documentation added/updated, if needed.
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• gdk doctor test added, if needed.
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